When it comes to a contested child custody case, which is typically the case in many divorce proceedings, both parents need to agree on what is in the best interest of the child. If they can’t, the court orders third-party mediation that involves a specialist who represents the court and is responsible for helping both ex-spouses to an amicable child custody agreement.
The role of the mediator must always be objective, and they are legally obliged not to get emotionally involved or take sides with either parent. The mediation is and must always be in the best interests of the child.
Mediation is Good for Helping Parents Develop a Child Custody Plan
The most vital element of a child custody mediation is for the parents to discuss and amicably agree upon child visitation or scheduling rights. The plan needs to be in line with the best interest of the child and his/her requirements.
In addition, the mediation will also allow both parents to make essential decisions for their child, such as discussing their healthcare, recreational activities, education, and overall well-being. It will also outline how and when your child will spend time with the non-custodial parent.
What Cannot Be Discussed in Parent-Child Custody Mediation?
It is important to keep in mind that the mediation is for the benefit of the child as well as for the parents in terms of how they can take care of their child. It is not for discussing court-related matters or things that the judge will decide and finalize. These things primarily include:
- The details of the divorce and why one parent filed for divorce.
- The amount of child support.
- The amount of spousal support.